Born with only my left leg, you would think that what I have never had I'd never miss. Nothing could be further from the truth.
Does it get me down? Of course it does.I'd be lying to you all if I said it didn't.
What gets me through the dark times? My family and my bodybuilding.
Ok., so I'm sitting here thinking of how to start a bio as I have never thought of doing it before.I'm beginning to think I should have before now. I suppose the way to go about it is start from my earliest memories and what I have learnt about my youth as I have gotten a little older.
I have photos of me as a young child, in my dads arms watching the trains in Cumbria. Although I cant actually remember this, I have been told that my dad loved to carry me everywhere. And although I didn't get on particularly well with my uncle..since his death I have learned that he was the one who pushed me to walking with a prosthetic.
My childhood, was, now I look back and have learned from others, quite sheltered. Whilst not wrapped completely in cotton wool and my parents were very keen that I was given no special treatment at the schools I attended, my wife and now my son have led a more active childhood and teenage years than I did.but to me, it was normal, so I was happy. I was, sort of bullied at school.not physically, more mentally.you know how cruel children can be and I wont go into details but I am sure that you all can imagine?
Just being left out of things, sports-wise would disappoint me, yet I could also understand it from the other childrens point of view.I would have hindered their team.
As my teenage years progressed, I found that I was getting more emotional about not having two legs, although very active on my prosthetic, walking without any aids etc. Not until recent years (last 4, have I needed assistance). I did some weight training (I wont call it bodybuilding as looking back to what I was doing then, compared to now, it was just exercise) when I was around 15 and although I didn't gain much, it took a little of my frustrations away.that and the powerful source of music.
When I met Dawn, my wife, I had very little confidence. and when I finally asked her out..one of the first things I said was "You DO know about my leg, don't you".
I had not wore shorts at all, always hidden my legs, never been swimming since I was about 8 or 9. My wife at the time was working in a Leisure Pool and asked me to go for a swim one day. I was very embarrassed but that was the start of things to come as, it has been Dawn that has given me the confidence to be where I am today.
From that shy 18yr old, I am now 37 and not only do I still wear shorts but as you can see from the video below I occasionally wear a lot less!